The sex can be just as good — if not better — when she's sober.It is possible to have passionate, wild, toe-curling sex with a woman who's sober.Don't ask if she's sure, don't pressure her, and don't act surprised.2.She'll tell you her reasons for not drinking when she's ready to. Just because she doesn't drink doesn't mean she isn't fun.“I knew that I had a lot of life ahead of me but one of the main reasons of getting sober was so that I could be around my little sister because my mom and dad [said I couldn’t be around her] if I was doing stuff.” That tough love paid off, and now Lovato is hoping her experiences helps others going through similar battles.“I went through some tough times and went to treatment for some struggles that I had and now I’ve come out the other side,” the “Sorry Not Sorry” singer said. I make it a priority.” Later, when talking to PEOPLE, Lovoto again reinforced why she wanted to be open about her journey.
See a play, go to a museum, go to a baseball game (you'll save tons of money if you're not spending per beer), take a walk, cook dinner together … Once you've established that she lays off the booze, try to avoid bringing it up all the time.And like many addicts, the moment she finally decided to address her alcohol and drug abuse came when she hit “rock bottom.” The 25-year-old singer opened up about about her dark days during an appearance on airing Saturday — confessing that while her family and friends had staged a few interventions over the years, they didn’t have an impact until they finally told the star they were abandoning her.“The final one, everyone was like, ‘We are no longer going to leave, we are leaving,’ ” Lovato recalled.“I use my stories to help others and inspire them to get the help they need.” “I had family and really close friends and my manager, they all were by my side through everything,” she continued. My fans too, I feel they gave me a reason to live and I’m forever grateful.” Lovato has been vocal about her mental health and her struggles with addiction, cutting and eating disorders since being diagnosed with bipolar disorder while receiving inpatient treatment in 2011. “When I went to rehab, my manager said you know, ‘You can either keep this private or you can share this with the world, and hopefully, someone can learn from your struggles,’ ” Lovato remembered.Earlier this month, Lovoto admitted that her sobriety is something that she works on “every single day” while receiving the Spirit of Sobriety award at the annual Brent Shapiro Foundation for Drug Prevention Summer Spectacular in Beverly Hills. “You just have to take it one day at a time, some days are easier than others and some days you forget about drinking and using, but for me, I work on my physical health, which is important, but my mental health as well.” “I see a therapist twice a week,” she added about her continued recovery. But times have changed and I'm now someone who navigates the world as a sober lady. If you find yourself interested in dating a woman who doesn't imbibe, here are some things you should know. She doesn't need to explain to you why she doesn't drink.