And in these families, the parents put their relationship before the kids.
Another’s girlfriend eventually broke up with him after several years because he rarely made time to spend alone with her, instead expecting constant family time with his son.
She has got such a great optimist approach of winning that it helps him to give up his hidden fears and move up in life even more confidently.
The protectiveness and possessiveness shown by her makes him feel loved and needed enhancing his sentiments and attachment to his lady love.
But he is very sensitive to hurt and is sometimes offended by the careless nature of the Aries woman. She meets all the obstacles headlong and headfirst, even when she must go out of her way to find them.
Ultimately, failure to put their partner first was a sign these guys were not ready for a serious relationship, or at least not with those particular women, and that is totally normal.
But it’s not cool to pay lip service to intentions of growing a serious, long-term relationship and from the onset demote your lover to second-rank — even before you message her on
Women are certainly guilty of putting their kids ahead of their partner — maybe even more so than men, especially since they are nearly always the primary care giver in the event of divorce.
But in this moment when men are struggling to claim their place as equal parents while society expects divorced dads to be the lackadaisical weekend father, I get why you are compelled to go overboard with your expressed devotion. If you are indeed ready for a real love, create a space for her.